Wow what a year. Feels like I have been on a rollercoaster with the past 3 months corkscrewing through the air at dizzying heights. If someone had said to me a year ago that in 12 months time I would have opened up Sydney’s first dedicated broth bar with a retail space and commercial kitchen I would have said “AS IF!??!”
This year was a reminder that life throws us many curveballs. 12 months ago I would never have foreseen the bend in the road. I have just finished reading one of my all time favourite books to my daughter, Anne of Green Gables (which at the age of 12 ignited in me a vivid imagination and the realisation that anything is possible), and in it appeared the following quote which resonated with me:
“…my future seemed to stretch out before me like a straight road. I thought I could see along it for many a milestone. Now there is a bend in it. I don’t know what lies around the bend, but I’m going to believe that the best does. It has a fascination of its own, that bend...”
Embrace the bends. They are another word for learning curves. They stretch us. Often stress us. But ultimately they are opportunities in disguise. They shape the person we are.
What I have learnt this year:
· We are stronger and more resilient than we can ever contemplate.
· Life is not perfect and is a juggling act especially when children are involved.
· Don’t make decisions out of a place of fear. You will only regret them.
· Don’t cut corners and compromise quality. Ever. Remind yourself daily what you stand for.
· Building something unique, beautiful and meaningful involves hard work and many sacrifices (hopefully they will pay dividends!).
· Don’t be afraid to call in support when required. It takes a village.
· Don’t be afraid to cry and show vulnerability. Holding stress in causes illness and disease.
· Rome wasn’t built in a day. The tortoise was slow and steady but ultimately reached his goal.
· Things happen for a reason. What may seem like an absolute kick in the guts may actually be a blessing in disguise.